![]() 01/14/2014 at 19:28 • Filed to: None | ![]() | ![]() |
I was finally able to grow a pair and asked out a girl who had a huge crush on me (she said yes McMike). It's only been a day and I have no idea where I should go with the relationship, but we live near by and the upcoming three day weekend does present many different opportunities! Wish me luck Oppo!
![]() 01/14/2014 at 19:31 |
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Go for it!
" feel don't think. Trust your instincts."
-Qui Gon Jinn
actually do use your brain, but still. Dinner, movies, bowling, walks in the park. Tons of stuff you can do.
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You left out the most important part.
Did she say yes?
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Dinner and bowling on Friday. Then ask the most powerful words ever spoken by a man "When can I see you again?".
You're welcome.
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So did she agree to go out with you? :)
![]() 01/14/2014 at 19:33 |
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Don't know if your being a smartass or not, but yes, she did.
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This. ThisThisThis.
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Agreed. Second only to "Does this smell like Chloroform to you?"
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O.k. so when in doubt....
Flat out! :D
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You know what you're doing... +10000 insert applause gif here
![]() 01/14/2014 at 19:37 |
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This^ when it doubt... Star Wars. Just don't act like jar jar.
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Awesome! I wish I could get a girl...
![]() 01/14/2014 at 19:42 |
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That comes at the end of the second date.
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I'm gonna try asking a girl out sometime soon but until then, Word
![]() 01/14/2014 at 19:44 |
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There is one girl I like but I have no idea if she is dating or not.
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Good luck!
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Same advice, substitute "stand up comedy show" for bowling. Worked with my wife.
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Whatever you do, make it about her. If you start thinking you're talking about yourself too much, too late, you've been talking about yourself WAY too much.
Repeat after me, "Enough about me, let's talk about you ." <— This should be the theme for your first date.
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I used to suggest movies, but I learned over the years that if it's your first outing, somewhere where you can interact works better. With a show the main problem is you're together but not really interacting.
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Ditto. Except never is too soon in my case.
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Good point
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The girl I'm talking about has been on my scopes for over a year but she had a boyfriend until a few months ago. I've seen her a few times since then and since she's in one of my father's choirs, will see her again soon and pop the question.
Here's the both of us at a Christmas event at the conservatory where my father teaches.
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Good luck bro
![]() 01/14/2014 at 20:01 |
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Thanks, I get nervous just thinking about asking her out but I've got a feeling that this just might work.
I'll psych myself up by watching Top Gun and blasting Pantera before I take the plunge,
![]() 01/14/2014 at 20:15 |
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No, no... Not being a smartass.. I didn't know if you were going to need the three day weekend to get an answer or to plan stuff.
Good luck!
![]() 01/14/2014 at 20:20 |
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thanks!.
![]() 01/14/2014 at 21:31 |
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Good Luck ... now, this may be a risky move but the potential payoff is huge. Ask the young lady if she has read any good books lately. If one of those happens to be oh ... say ... "50 Shades of Gray" then follow up with something like "Ah, I've heard if it - did you like it?". If she did not, change the subject quickly. If she gives you a wicked grin and a wink you're in for one hell of a ride!
![]() 01/14/2014 at 23:36 |
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You could ask her. I've been told they like it when you talk to them about things.